Tuesday, January 7, 2014

E-Day : How does it all started?

Morning..
Da lama peram post ni..sebabnya takde mase nak tulis..
So it's gonna be long entry and not organised..Coz it will be based on what I can recall during this write up..

So, as most of the people know.. I got engaged to him on 29.12.13..Basically we have been planning about this since after Raya Puasa..The story goes like this..We went back to his hometown..He introduced me to his parents and family..On the way back to KL, he actually told me that his family suggested utk kami bertunang..Siap mention abah die cakap, "Dah dapat girlfriend cantik ni tak payah bercinta lama2..tunang je." Kata die, abah die berkenan benar dgn aku..hihi..malu la..mane ade cantik pun, manis ade la..biase2 je..

Actually, I was quite shock when he said that..Sebabnya aku tak expect mcm it's too soon..Kitorg pun baru je nak kenal hati budi masing2..But he seem very serious about it..and he said that he will told my parents about it..Aku pun ok lah..Teruja..but still taknak feeling lebih2..bukan ape..pengalaman sebelum2 ni mengajar utk tak terlalu mengharap pada sesuatu yg belum pasti..jadi aku pun malas nk lebih2..biar pihak lelaki yg mulakan pape dulu..

So, die paksa aku suh bagitau mama and abah about the plan..Aku ni punyalah berdebar mcm ne nak bgtau mama and abah ni......FYI, aku tak rapat sgt ngn parents aku mcm sesetengah org yg boleh cerita everything to their mom..I'm more reserved..Especially in things involving hati dan perasaan ni..So, memang berat sgt mulut ni nak mulakan ckp kat mama and abah..Bile aku suruh die ckp..die tanak..die suruh aku at least inform dlu..then baru die akan ckp pulak on behalf of his parents..So terpaksalah aku menghadap jugak mama and abah....................

Done talking to my parents..I told them not to tell anyone about this..jgn bagitau sedara mara semua lgi ok??Because for me, selagi benda tak finalise and tak confirm tolonglah jgn dok gebang satu kampung..buat malu je kalau tak jadi..

Then, he told my parents and my grandma about it..Die ckp nnt parents die akan hantar rombongan meminang bulan 12..Parents aku mintak diorg dtg mersik dulu bulan 10..sebab nak kenal2 dgn keluarga lelaki..ye la dak..takkan xkenal terus nak main terjah meminang je kan?tu yg diorg request nak jugak at least sekali parents die dtg jumpe..

Ikutkan perancangan, his parents supposed to come to my house for merisik on October..but..due to his father health condition, unfortunately they can't make it..So mak die request utk skalikan majlis tu..Abah suggest nak pi melawat abah die kat hospital..So, kitorg pun ke Cameron Highland utk lawat abah die..skali ngan Mak (panggilan aku utk nenek aku) nak ikut..oklah tak kisah la..Tu lah first time parents aku and parents die berkenalan..Mak die pun ckp la pasal plan nak dtg meminang bulan 12..Parents aku pun ok je..

So that's how it all started...Panjang tak mukadimah?

Maka bermulalah planning kitorg utk majlis pertunangan....

Nanti aku akan update dlm entry lain on the preparation and everything else......which is i dont know when la..hihi..

Till then.

Love,
Puteri


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