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Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

Hmm..since lame aku tak update blog..so aku nak wat byk entri skali..lagipun arini kat office aku takde keje..so baik aku isi masa lapang ngan meng'update' blog ni..lately ni aku baca this novel..coz now cam takde life sgt..so aku menghabiskan masa baca novel la..nak kuar date pun BF jauh..hmm..back to the topic..this book mmg best la i tell u..aku pinjam dr adikku yg tak berapa nak cute tp perasan kiut, Alia..buku ni cite pasal relationship between men and women..yg memang aku rase kena sebijik kat batang hidung aku..meh nak kongsi sikit smpi yg aku dah baca..

1. Penulis tu ckp pasal differences between men and women..1 of the differences is the way we deal with stress or any problems..For men, or he called them Martians(coz they are from Mars), if Martians under stree or having any difficulties, he will tend to go to his cave..Meaning, he want to be alone and dont want his gf to ask anything or trying to solve his problems..Martian would like to solve everything on their own..coz it will make them feel very strong and powerful and can be rely on..therefore if Venusians trying to help them by asking too many questions(it's normal la for us coz we care and want to share everything together kan), it will lead to arguements...from here aku da nampak yg aku penah wat cam tu kat b aku..sebab for me, i want him to share and if he went into his cave without telling me aku akan rase upset and rase cam die tanak aku dah..bile aku tny he was like dont want to tell me and aku keep on pushing him smpi jadi gaduh..coz we dont understand our differences..but now aku dah taw la after bace buku ni..
2. As for us, Venusians, we love to care and share about almost anything..it's our way of putting away everything for awhile..kan?The author said that women like to talk because when they talk and share problems with their martians, they will feel so relieved..and women need support from her partner.she just want him to listen to her without telling her what to do to solve it..but as for martians, they will tend to give solutions and that will upset the venusians..So guys, just be a gud listener and give warm hug if she is in trouble cos that can help her a lot instead of being Mr. Fix It..

tu je la yg aku leh kongsi stakat ni..byk lagi actually but if u guys read on your own, it would be better to understand..then try to compare to yourself..most of us are like that..because we are all different and if we could not understand the differences, it is difficult for us to make it happen..credit to John Gray for such a great job!!

Finally...

haha..it's been a while aku tak update blog ni..malas betol..kat umah pun internet tengah dlm proses nak tukar baru..semuanye sebab aritu wireless router aku kena sambar kilat..hmm..so plan nak tukar yg cool unipax tu..tapi cam leceh plak..macam2 diorg nak..slip gaji la surat pengesahan la..tah pape la..pastu tgk alamat umah aku mesti diorg reject owh..ingat sumer dok BA kaye2 ke?hmmm..tp abg streamyx tu smart gak walaupun takleh sebut 'S'..so finally aku amek pakej yg RM110 streamyx blockbuster..sebab malas nak pikir dah..bayar je la kan..hmm..tak jadi la nak sign up for broadband since dah pki streamyx ni..so i'll wait for abang streamyx tu pasang the internet for us next week..

hmm...best gak wat blog ni time FTA kat office..takde keje so leh la aku merepek sorg2 kat sini..bukan ade follower pun nak bace..just nak hilangkan boring n takde keje kat ofis ni..nak cite pasal journey aku kat office..seronok la jadi auditor ni..walaupun ramai yg tak suke auditor but i'm proudly say that i love my job and i love being in KPMG..KPMG rocks!!much better drpd aku intern dulu kat AWS..hmm..stakat ni tak byk sgt job aku handle..aku da wat 3 company so far..ok la..fun but a bit tiring klu dpt client yg filing die teruk..but it's all about learning new things..and now aku rase more confident to face people and to ask people about anything..tak takut kena marah lagi..walaupun kadang2 aku sendiri tak paham ape yg aku tny,tapi aku wat je mcm paham so tak la nmpk mcm budak baru..hihi..sengal..

p/s : pic time first day join..

so far aku happy keje kat sini!!n tak sabar nak confirm n nak sign training contract..nak cepat2 abiskan ACCA..then i'll consider about migrating or working at KPMG overseas..hihi..